On October 15, 2023, a message from the Board shared exciting news about the installation of front door planters to enhance the building’s exterior. Seemingly unrelated, a subsequent communication on October 19th, this time from Mary Mora of Allied Partners, shed light on the guidelines for lobby usage.
As innocuous as these updates may seem, there’s a deeper, more unsettling story behind them—a story that raises questions about the values we uphold as a community.
In the October 15th communication, the Board expressed their delight in finally adorning the building with front door planters, an idea contemplated for years. The motive was simple—to beautify the exterior. However, little did residents know that this seemingly aesthetic decision was, in fact, part of a not-so-subtle message directed at one particular resident who had suffered a serious injury and had been sitting outside our building for respite during their recovery period
Shortly after the planters’ announcement, Mary Mora addressed residents on October 19th, emphasizing the lobby’s intended purpose and discouraging prolonged use for personal activities. Unbeknownst to most, this seemingly routine reminder concealed a more profound motive—a motive that targeted the same resident and her caregiver who had been using the lobby for relief from the afternoon heat.
Behind the carefully worded messages and seemingly routine updates lies a disheartening reality. The resident in question, facing mobility challenges after a serious injury, found solace under the front entrance awning and occasionally took refuge in the lobby with their caregiver during warm weather.
The planters, strategically placed, and the lobby guidelines “reminder” were both meant to deter this resident from using these spaces. The lack of ADA compliance on the roof deck meant that the resident had limited options for enjoying the outdoors. The Board’s actions sent a message of exclusion to someone already grappling with significant physical challenges.
In light of these revelations, it’s essential for our community to reflect on the values we hold dear. Cooperative living should be characterized by inclusivity, understanding, and empathy. These recent events serve as a reminder that our actions, even seemingly innocuous updates, can have profound implications on the well-being of our neighbors.
As a community, we must strive to foster an environment where everyone feels welcome and accommodated. It is essential for the Board to consider the diverse needs of residents, especially those facing physical challenges, and work towards solutions that promote inclusivity rather than exclusion.
Let’s use this revelation as an opportunity to strengthen our commitment to compassion, empathy, and understanding. Our community thrives when we uplift and support one another, and it is in this spirit that we can truly create a home for all.